One vital factor in one night hookup---Look out for each other

If you are going out with someone, make sure that person is trust-worthy. Go out with the person who can make sure you get home safe and sound. Communicate with them about what you want and check out how they have been doing. Having one night hookup or not, you need to know where your friend live and what are they doing for living and so on. Just to make sure they are not lying to you. After all, in most circumstances, our hookup partner is someone who we do not know before and may not will know after one night hookup.

You can also observe people around them. Seeing your partner in the perspective of the third person can be a very effective way to find out what kind of person he/she is. Before things get dangerous, investigate it beforehand. Save yourself from unhappened danger is far easier from when you are in the middle of it. Never put yourself at risks. Most places and colleges have their own safety call. If you feel you are in danger, you can ask them to escort you home.

Especially in college, hookup culture is everywhere and is harmful in many aspects, you can find them on dating apps. This is an issue remain unsolved. Hookup culture can be dangerous. It can lead to rape and even more serious. It can be neglected easily because of two lovers making out seems to be absolutely normal. For example, when you see a couple making out while one of them is being cornered and she seems uncomfortable. You noticed that the person who is cornering her is someone taller and stronger while the person being cornered is much weaker. You can intervene by saying “are you guys okay?” If they gladly say they are fine or tell you to back off, you can go ahead and let them. However, if one of them says okay uncomfortably, you can make another excuse, like you found their phone on the road or pretend to be drunk and get in their way. Just to create some obstacle for them and try to find out if there is something wrong.

In the circumstances mentioned above, you can just pass by or take more responsibility. The latter movement is preferred in college. This is vital for the righteous development of tinder hookup culture in college campus. When I was in school, that is how I did when I see something went wrong.

To make sure everyone come through this period of time safely and healthily. We need to act from this moment and start from ourselves. You should be invited to a pleasant night instead of someone forcing themselves on you or compelled to drink so as to get you in bed. When you are looking out for someone else, you should also look out for yourself.